Learning

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Learned a Thing or Two the past fifteen years about coping with Change. I’ve learned you can’t solve every problem by moving. You take yourself with you.  It is important to get to know me.

I didn’t like everything I’ve found inside me. I can be a grumpy, bitchy and needy thing. However I can also be loving, loyal, smart and a bit of a badass.

The best feeling has been feeling more and more like I am my own best friend. ”I love you Eve.” I tell myself this in the mirror, sometimes without laughing. I am meaning it more and more. You are awesome!!!!

It’s okay to be alone. It is a normal part of the human condition. You may fall apart from feeling lonely but you may come back together and even better you.

It’s important to learn to be ok with having difficult conversations. It’s part of being an adult, being real.

You have to tell your boyfriend or lover what you like and what you don’t like. He or she can’t read your mind.  That goes for you identical twins too.

You have to make difficult calls and own up to being human. A “sorry” won’t kill you it will make you stronger.

Before I open my mouth I ask myself, “Is this necessary? Is this kind and is this right?” I learned from being married that love is more important than being right.

 

 

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